Proper Communication is the pillar of every relationship.

Some men shy away from communicating properly with their partners, they dream for a loving partner but avoid the road that leads to a solid relationship, such as those uncomfortable conversations that may expose their weaknesses or vulnerability.

Trust me, being humble and vulnerable to your partner does not create insults but a loving atmosphere for everyone to enjoy. Pride and arrogance is the root of most unhappy marriages. Whoever told you that you need to be a man by treating your wife as a side piece and not loving her affectionately like Christ loves us, has lied to you and wants to ruin your marriage.

Why would you always claim tired, glued to your phone or busy when you are at home with your partner but necessarily not working?

Why do you not find pleasure in making the woman In your life happy by communicating your needs and areas of adjustments in your marriage so you can grow together in love?  

I believe that some of these men cheat on their partners and they are too guilty to have a good communication with the wife of their youth.

Marriage is not single life, you can’t have both. 
You have a partner in your life now and you should intentionally make time for them and sometimes make yourself uncomfortable.

It is also difficult for a woman to submit and respect a man who does not make sacrifices to solidify the relationship. Rather than flirting with other females or committing adultery, what can be the way forward?

“Better is a poor but wise child than an old but stupid king, who no longer has enough sense to heed a warning.” (Eccl. 4:13)

Credit: Your marriage can be saved