HOW TO MANAGE YOUR ENGAGEMENT PERIOD BEFORE THE WEDDING!

HOW TO MANAGE YOUR ENGAGEMENT PERIOD BEFORE THE WEDDING!

Please be careful within the period of your engagement and the wedding, those are the most delicate times of your entire courtship.

You will encounter countless Temptations to relax your standards and free yourself with each other, because of the vibe that he has already proposed and the wedding is in three months.

There is that temptation to drop the virtues and principles you both have been holding on to since you started dating.

The temptation to sleep over at his house, because he has done small thing on your head.

The temptation to go and start cooking indomie and washing his clothes, aka housewife internship program to know his kitchen better, because he bought six yards of Guinea brocade for your mother.

The temptation to start initiating small small kissing and romance that you avoided all the years, because you have gone to collect marriage list from her ancestors.

Please fight these temptations, be rest assured the urges are going to come, this is why the Bible speaks about being wiser than the serpent, you both have to ensure that your discipline is kept high and consistent.

One thing that can help is to keep the engagement period as short as possible, don't propose and stay engaged for 2 years, that is giving the devil more than enough time to violate all the Godly virtues that you both represent in that courtship.

Keep the engagement period short, start planning for the wedding immediately proposals are exchanged, 6-8months is very recommended.

Extended periods of courtship is a cardinal enemy of your salvation and chastity before marriage.

Within that two years of engagement;

You have done abortions 3 times.

Drank postinor every week like Nutri C to avoid pregnancy.

Slept over at his house like NNPC sponsored your vacation.

Your pants already have free accommodation in his bathroom.

You both can now comfortably undress before each other and not be ashamed.

You are now washing his boxers with hypo like you have an advanced diploma in home economics.

All in the name of 'we are engaged'.

All in the name of 'he will marry me soon'.

Anyone who tries to advice you to take things slow and wait until after the wedding becomes an enemy of your happiness.

At the end of the day even if the wedding eventually happens two years later, your engagement has squeezed out all the freshness that should follow you into your new home, your salvation and your virtue all compromised for the wedding ring on your finger.

Many singles live like married couples within their engagement before finally doing their wedding after two years.

Credit: The Cynthos