SOME MARRIAGE SECRETS COUPLES SHOULD KNOW!

Written by: Anointed Tokpah Dossen
SECRET 1:
Everyone you marry has a weakness. I mean, there must be something your partner isn’t good at and you dislike it. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his/her strength.

SECRET 2:
Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.

SECRET 3:
Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges.  Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow “For better for worse” In sickness and in health be there.

SECRET 4:
Every marriage has different levels of success. God may choose to bless Marriage “A” with a promotion for the husband, Marriage “B” own may be a cry of a new born baby while Marriage “C” may be an increase in businesses. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.

SECRET 5: 
To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:
Ignorance 
Prayerlessness
Unforgiveness 
Third party influence 
Stinginess
Stubbornness 
Lack of love 
Lack of understanding 
Rudeness
Laziness 
Disrespect 
Cheating, etc
Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.

SECRET 6:
There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances. Let us not be careless about our marriages. 

SECRET 7: 
God cannot give you a complete person you desire. He gives you the person in the form of raw materials. You have to turn that “Raw Material” into a finishing goods for your consumption.
God bless you! 

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