I ALMOST LOST THE RIGHT MAN BECAUSE OF "HARD TO GET"

As I look back on my journey, I realize that I almost made a grave mistake by playing hard to get with the man who proposed to me. I thought that by making him wait, I would be more valuable and our relationship would last longer. But in reality, I was deceiving myself and risking losing the one who truly loved me.

For years, I kept him at arm's length, telling him I wasn't ready for a relationship, all while secretly enjoying the attention of another man who seemed more appealing to me. I was drawn to his charm, good looks, and charisma, and I found myself wishing he was mine. But deep down, I knew I was compromising my values and integrity.

The truth is, I was trying to fill a void in my life with temporary pleasures, and I ended up feeling lonely, ashamed, and used. I realized too late that I had been playing with my destiny and future. But by the grace of God, I found my way back to the man who had been waiting for me all along. His love is long-suffering, and he forgave me for my mistakes.

This experience taught me a valuable lesson: there's no need to play hard to get with God. He has already proposed His love to us, and He's waiting for us to accept it. But we often delay, thinking we need to enjoy life to the fullest before surrendering to Him. We give in to the devil's lies and deceit, damaging our future in the process.

Let's stop playing hard to get with God's love. He can give us everything we need and desire. As Romans 5:8 says, "But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us." Let's embrace His unfailing love and surrender to Him fully.