DON'T CHASE WOMEN: Peter D'Rock [OPINION]

DON'T CHASE WOMEN

I decided never to chase any woman. Never to work hard for any woman. Yes, because in my past I did that stuff and was all drained out. The average Nigerian/African woman feels that being wooed is the only time she has to feel expensive by setting up a thick skin, so to be seen as a real woman. They'd tell you that if you want them, you should ‘work’ hard for it. You should work hard to win them over.

This might be one of the greatest mistake you'll make as a man. You shouldn't work hard to win any woman..
You shouldn't work hard to convince any woman..
You shouldn't chase any woman.. 
Chase your purpose instead.
You shouldn't be begging any woman to date you. Yes, woo but never you beg a woman to date or marry you. Forbid that no matter who she is.
All these are mostly prevalent when there's no love..

It's mostly prevalent when she feels that she's doing you some favour by dating you. 
I stayed away from any woman who made me feel that I should work hard for her, or who said it. 
It empowers abuse in the relationship because the need for the relationship is tilted only to the guy's angle..
The woman should want the relationship as much as you do..
She's not superior because she's a female. Nah. 
You both are favoured to have yourselves, so if she makes you feel she's the only one doing you a favour, please leave..

I'm not saying men shouldn't woo a woman. Yes, someone will always lead, and in the African society it's mostly the men. 
Woo her, but don't chase an adult.. She is not a hen. yes!
It's not by force..lol
This is why a lot of men are so drained. 
They've given all of their passion to the chase, and they couldn't catch their target, hence they fall and fall so seriously; wounded and bruised emotionally.

Don't force love. 
Don't beg for it.
Sometimes we find love, sometimes love just happens. 
I prefer love just happening, than having to be the one chasing someone who's not interested in you.

There's no need chasing a woman to date you. 
I mean, the relationship would benefit both of you..
If a woman doesn't want you, after some trials, just move on. 
She's not giving you a job; even if she is, after all, employees meet a standard that makes them employed, so you basically also have something she needs.

And if she doesn't need you. Don't chase..
Unless you'd be strong enough to bear the pain of unrequited love; it destroys emotionally.

Don't chase!
Just initiate!

Written by: Peter D'Rock
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